We all want to be chosen. It’s a natural, human longing — one rooted in our need for connection, belonging, and safety. But when that desire comes from unhealed wounds, it can lead us into patterns that reflect pain rather than possibility. In this piece, I explore how the longing to be chosen shows up in romantic relationships, how it can echo early attachment dynamics, and what it means to choose differently from a place of wholeness.

I’ve been starting over for years, without even realizing it. What looked like failure was actually sacred redirection. From love to career to life in NYC, here’s how going “back” taught me more about trust, self-worth, and the beauty of non-linear growth.

Spiritual insights for June 2025.

I’ve always had a complicated relationship with spiritual readings because I’ve always known they’re meant to be more than a one-off insight. Over time, I realized I wasn’t just here to give readings, I was meant to walk with people through them. Now, I weave ancestral and astrological readings into my therapeutic work, creating an integrated approach that has transformed everything.